The word “myth” has been tainted by common usage in which it has come
to refer to a falsehood. This is unfortunate for each of us as
individuals and for society in general. Rather than being judged as
“true” or “false,” mythology can be best thought of as a way of making
sense of reality – an interpretive tool. As such, a myth can be judged
only insofar as it is functional or dysfunctional for positive growth
and development at a particular point in time for a given individual,
family, or group.
Just as each culture organizes reality according to its mythology,
each individual also views his or her life through a unique
mythological lens. As we move through life, we are called upon to
update our basic mythological understanding of the world. Accepting
that our conceptions of reality are mythical in nature makes it easier
for us to revise and reformulate old ways of thinking rather than to
feel pressured to defend outdated views. Our personal mythologies,
therefore, are our ever-changing systems of complementary and
conflicting personal myths. A personal myth is a cognitive-affective
structure or schema – a pattern of thinking and feeling that gives
meaning to the past, defines the present, and provides direction for
the future. It serves the functions of explaining, guiding, and
sacralizing experience for the individual in a manner that is
analogous to the way cultural myths serve those same functions for a
society.
We can think of our personal mythology as including all the
interacting and sometimes conflicting thoughts and feelings we
consciously and unconsciously have about our world. These thoughts and
feelings shape our comprehension of what the world is and of our place
in it, and they help determine the actions we will take as we live our
lives. Although our myths do not always engage our conscious mind,
they are always intimately affecting our lives. We are most likely to
become aware of a given myth when a change is occurring within it.
Because dreams appear to synthesize one’s existing mythic structures
with the data of one’s life experiences, any incongruity between these
elements is often presented to us in dream content. It appears to be
the task of many dreams to resolve any disjuncture between our
personal mythology and our actual experience.
Indeed, personal myths appear to form in a manner that is parallel to
the way dreams develop. We can hypothesize that personal myths and
dreams are both related to the brain’s propensity for language and
narrative structure. Humans have often been described as
“meaning-seeking animals.” Our personal myths may be a way for us to
find meaningful structure in our experience, while dreams perform the
same function with the torrent of images and feelings welling up from
the unconscious every night. As Montague Ullman has written, “Our
dreams serve as corrective lenses which, if we learn to use them
properly, enable us to see ourselves and the world about us with less
distortion and with greater accuracy.” The same can be said of our
personal mythology.
Since our personal mythology has its roots in the ways we learned to
make sense of our world during childhood, there is frequently a
conflict in one’s personal mythology which is affecting one’s
feelings, thoughts or behavior, and a mythic crisis is apparent in
regard to personal development. This crisis occurs when a prevailing
myth becomes so outdated or otherwise dysfunctional that the psyche
generates a counter-myth to organize perceptions and responses which
the old myth cannot accommodate. When this occurs, the psyche is in
conflict as each competing myth becomes a psychological entity
attempting to dominate particular situations with its particular modes
of perceiving and responding.
While personal myths shape our awareness, they themselves operate
largely outside of ordinary consciousness. It is possible, however, to
willfully bring many aspects of our personal mythology into our
awareness. Because it is the nature of dreams to expose and puncture
dysfunctional personal myths and to shed light on the self-deceptive
strategies one uses to avoid initiating a more functional pattern of
behavior, dream appreciation can be one of the most effective means of
bringing these myths into conscious awareness. Awakening to the mythic
dimension of our lives is to achieve the freedom to inspect and revise
that which for most people controls them unaware.
One can develop a categorization system which describes several
aspects of dreams in this ongoing dialectic. A particular dream may
include one or more of the aspects outlined below. For people who have
learned to understand inner events in terms of personal mythology,
this can be a useful framework for understanding their dreams.
1. The dream may attempt to strengthen an old, self-limiting myth
(particularly when it is challenged) by (a) emphasizing past
experiences which provided evidence for the validity of the old myth;
(b) resolving conflicts between the old myth and daily experiences
through the assimilation of these experiences into the structure of
the old myth; (c) providing visions of a future dominated by the old
myth – a preview of the future according to the old myth, often with a
sense of inevitability.
2. Dreams may create or strengthen a counter-myth which has grown out
of the old myth’s deficiencies by (a) reworking old experiences and
interpreting them in a less self-limiting, more affirming manner
providing an alternative to the old myth’s template of reality; (b)
interpreting new experiences in this manner and/or accommodating the
old myth to fit new experiences in a manner that corresponds more
closely to the counter-myth; (c) by organizing possibilities into a
positive future with wish-fulfillment qualities; while inspiration for
pursuing these possibilities is often present, instruction for how to
translate them into daily life is not generally evident.
3. The dream may facilitate a cognitive integration between the two
myths. As ongoing experiences bring the two toward a compromise, they
become more compatible, an integration of essential elements of each
becomes possible, and the cognitive forces that work against conflict
begin to integrate the two myths. This process is suggested in dreams
which (a) highlight experiences from the past in which the mythic
conflict was evident and show ways it could be integrated; (b)
highlight the conflict as it emerged in recent experiences and show
ways of resolving it; (c) portent a future where the conflict is
resolved, often instructing the person in how to accomplish the
resolution.
Feeling tone often gives a clue as to the function of the dream. “Old
myth” dreams typically feel defeating, hopeless, and draining in terms
of energy and vitality. “Counter-myth” dreams typically tend to feel
hopeful, optimistic, even exhilarating. “Integration” dreams tend to
produce a calm, positive, realistic feeling.
In summary, dreams can play an important role in presenting to the
dreamer his or her mythic structure. Dreams can itemize each aspect of
one’s personal mythology and can point out when an old personal myth
has become inadequate for life’s current issues. The dream can point
out when personal myths have become outdated, can provide a
dialectical encounter between old and new myths, and can mediate
conflicts between myths, even providing new mythic structures and
facilitating synthesis.
(For further exploration of the concepts and techniques presented in
this article, please see The Mythic Path by D. Feinstein and S.
Krippner, New York: Putnam/Tarcher, 1997. The second part of this
essay, appearing in a future issue of Dream Network Journal, will
apply these techniques of dream appreciation to some well-known
popular songs in which dreams are presented).